Cult Recovery
Leaving a high-control group or cult can be disorienting, lonely, and overwhelming, especially when the people around you do not understand what you are carrying.
Whether you were born into a high-control group, joined as an adult, or are still partly inside one while beginning to question it, the impact can reach into every part of your life: your relationships, your sense of safety, your decision-making, and your relationship with yourself. These groups do not have to be religious, high-control dynamics show up in families, relationships, workplaces, and wellness or political communities, too.
Cult Recovery
Difficulty making decisions on your own
Chronic guilt, shame, or fear of punishment
Black-and-white or rigid thinking patterns
Loss of relationships due to shunning or estrangement
Confusion about your own identity or values
Hypervigilance or persistent sense of being watched
Distrust of your own perceptions or judgment
Grief for lost time, relationships, or community
Difficulty with authority, or constantly deferring to authority
Arrested development or delayed milestones
Signs of cult involvement or leaving a high-control group
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A social environment that is relationally and ideologically extreme, where members are coercively influenced through systems of psychosocial control. The terms "high-control group" and "cult" are often used interchangeably, and this dynamic is not limited to religious settings.
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A systematic effort to change a person's beliefs and behaviors through coordinated psychological techniques, often involving control over information, emotion, and identity.
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The use of a position of trust or power to override another person's free will and judgment, often leaving the individual acting against their own interests without realizing it at the time.
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The practice of deliberately avoiding or excluding a person, often used within high-control groups as a means of discipline or control, and one of the most painful losses many people carry after leaving.
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Control over a person's environment and information, including relationships, media, and communication, that limits their ability to form independent thoughts or perspectives.
Check out these blog posts on cults.
I understand how disorienting it can be to question, and eventually leave, a group that once defined your entire world. I work with individuals recovering from cults, high-control groups, high-demand religions, and other coercive communities. Some of my clients are still inside and quietly questioning; others left recently; and some have been out for years but still feel stuck, confused, or unable to fully trust themselves.
In our work together, I aim to offer a space where you can ask hard questions without judgment. I am not here to push you toward any belief system or away from one. I am here to help you reconnect with your own voice, your own values, and your own sense of self.
Naming and unpacking what you experienced, without minimizing it
Rebuilding trust in your own perceptions and judgment
Understanding coercive control and thought reform tactics
Grieving relationships, time, and identity that were lost
Healing internalized shame, fear, or guilt
Reclaiming decision-making and personal autonomy
Finding safety in your body and nervous system
Reconnecting with curiosity about who you are now
What Cult Recovery Can Look Like
Leaving a high-control group can feel like losing your map. It can also be the beginning of something that is authentically yours. I am trained in trauma-informed care, IFS / Parts Work, EMDR, attachment-based therapy, and narrative therapy, and I bring an understanding of how coercive systems intersect with identity, family, and community.
If you're ready to reconnect with your own voice, contact to set up a consultation.
